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    19 November

    管了回闲事

    昨日骑车,路遇一老者大喊抓小偷,前方20米处一青年肩扛纸箱小跑。本已拐入胡同的我调头骑车去追,心想你扛着东西还能跑哪去!追上后拉住他质问却发现好像不像小偷。见我以后他也并没有挣脱的意思,只是着急往前面小区门口赶。这时老人也追上来了。问清楚了才知道原来他当真不是小偷,老人为了让人拦住他情急之下给人扣了这个帽子。扛的纸箱是给人送的货,在公车上货没看好,砸了老人的脚。一句倒歉估计是没好气,老人越想越气就不依不饶。他着急下车送货,老人拉着不放,拉扯间老人还被推搡了一下。下车后和老人沟通不成,怕送货迟到扛起箱子就跑。这才有了开始的一幕。小偷没抓成,不过这事我也要管了。这年轻人的做法实在要谴责。东西砸到人已经是不对,不诚心道歉不说还动手推搡,而面对的还是年近七旬的老人。我是一边谴责年轻人的不对一边安抚老人。其实这时年轻人也意识到自己刚才的做法不对,认错态度也不错,而老人也不是不讲理的人,他也不想折腾去医院检查。只是说脚疼这样不方便回家。可偏偏年轻人身上一分钱都没有。我说干脆这样:我出钱让老人打车回家。老人听了直说虽说贪上了倒霉的事不过遇见我也很感动。车他不打了,坐刚才的公车还有几站就到家了。帮着把老人搀上了车,这事也算比较圆满的解决了。其实生活中人与人接触磕磕碰碰的事太多太多,如果做错了事都能诚恳的道歉,如果年轻人都对老人多一些尊敬,如果人人都将心比心,其实很多矛盾本不该发生。管了这件闲事对我自己本身也是一个触动,站在旁观者的角度还能做到心平气和,如果自己是当事人呢?也许也会冲动误了事。没想过自己也能做思想工作,看来还是有潜力的~~

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    zj 林wrote:
    男人啊!Jiabin
    7 Jan.
    Jingzhu Maowrote:
    感动阿~
    不愧是头牌~以后怎么着也给你加5块!
    20 Nov.
    Yihuan Zhangwrote:
    偶像啊~~~
    19 Nov.
    Ivy Shenwrote:
    党员党员~~~
    19 Nov.
    Peifeng yanwrote:
    但你还是我的偶像!
    19 Nov.
    蓝 星wrote:
    恩,东北人都是活雷锋嘛
    19 Nov.
    静 王wrote:
    嘉宾的先进事迹真是数不胜数!
    19 Nov.
    嘉宾 李wrote:
    本来以为要见义勇为一回了,没想到后来其实起了街道大妈的作用...
    19 Nov.
    Peifeng yanwrote:
    JB你是我的偶像
    19 Nov.

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